I have 50/50 custody in which my son switches houses every week, which has never been a problem, and my girlfriend has an order that basically has no specific times, but states that both parents have to agree to the visitation. I am worried about his environment at this point, so Im willing to go to any length. One of the officers started running to the patrol car, he said Ill get her. Ive read about filing a motion of petition, not sure exactly how to do that, & dont really have money for the fees it cost. Have a copy of your decree with you. if your children are disabled they cant run away. I just want you to ask yourself that one question: Do you really know what you are doing when you refuse to send child support? It was her and my 5 yr old son & her best friend girlfriend. If he was doing all that physical abuse you would have had the evidence to put him in jail. I didnt I took her to court for full physical custody and now I have custody of my son. Christina Sapiano. Maybe you have bipolar disorder. You have to give every opprtunity and if that then fails you can address it in court. Why would he threaten his babies life if he wants to see her? I have a question for a friend of mine. now he and her husband and getting a divorce and she took him out of school and hes been with us for the past 2 weeks. Is it my fault she pays $2,200 a month in rent, drives an Audi Q7, likes to shop at luxury stores? Casey Stegall reports from Dallas, Texas. I and the children are now suffering. She suffers from bipolar/depression so its been hard dealing with her I need some help I try talking to lawyers but hasnt got anywhere please someone help me with correct facts on what I should do? Never mind the fact that youre underworking to be able to say you cant provide what you should. There must be something I can do. Now they are threatening my freedom. She refuses to let them be with me, saying she will call the police on me if I show up trying to pick up the kids. Sorry but Im not sure I agree with you. My husband and his ex were never married , he pays child support and we have been to court already over custody. Its just awful and my heart hurts every minute. I am going thru hell, navigating the web, hoping to find some help as a father but its so impossible. Do you know the names of your childs friends, and how many play dates do you host at your house weekly, going through 3 $5 boxes of snacks in a couple hours? I need to know what to do when the court fails to enforce a court judgement. Hi, The UCCJEA clearly intends that law enforcement officers should be involved in custody cases only under the most extreme circumstances. well we have joint custody now and on the 22 of may we will court again for full. Yes, get back in court ASAP. Can anyone help ?!?!! You decided to have those children and are now obligated to care for them. They are not only yours to claim when youre showing off how they have your eyes and how you treated them to ice cream one weekend. I THINK I JUST FELT A BRICK OFF MY HEART. But, she got served by him and we lice in Michigan and hes scared shes gonna take him and not being him back. If they had any friends or social groups you could attempt to approach them as a family friend or whatever you think to be good. However, in our experience, when my husbands ex kept his kids on our weekend, we called the police and her boyfriend was there to refuse to give them to us. The officer returned fire, striking the suspect in the leg. Currently my mother sends me money in order to help me make ends meet since my exs child support payments are inconsistent at best. And tonight he called me from a Tennessee number. I can definitely say I fulfill your shoes and add to all of that, dealing with a mother who besides taking child support, lies to the state and still collects welfare! I told her Ill call the police. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. she caused seen one day then got cps case i gave her custody and whatever but kept parental rights and 3 he 3 day a week all then I hmget notice that visitation and custody is as family law stated only family law case is from me taking her dam law and got 49 %custody her 51 ads I let her b sister while at work but always dose way want comes goes with kids hide lies and now reported for sure all week did not see kids and Im reporting and thinking press charges, So what happen my kids mom she has violated order one week called police everyday to prove no matter way she violated.i know if I just got up bounced use be arrested she had me come over one time bring son batteries she was not there and her grandpa pulled gone threatened to kill me shoot me in face I call police and I go to jail I dont no way her and her side say but with my past and whatever they tell cops to do it I wonder she such liar really rose murr, Thats a perfect question!! She s saying something bout coming to get him the 30th. Unreal. Everyone should learn and read court process rules and start figuring it out correctly. The police couldnt enforce the custody decree and told us there was nothing they could do. But, I was kidless that weekend. A Motion to Enforce tells the court that the opposing party has failed to comply with the child custody order and is unreasonably denying you visitation. Spare all of us your woe is me diatribe. Uugh I couldnt function without them. It is being removed from me and she is being poisoned against me. Do you know what insurance your child has? And I dont like him being over there with his new wifes son who has been abbusive to my son and has been kicked out of many schools. Who gives him help when he has custody or visitation with the kids does the mother of the children give him weekend allowance to supply the needs as much as you need for kids. I wish you luck. you do mean MEN AND WOMEN right that find it difficult to understand. I havent seen my daughter in 2 months. He is completely unstable, a ton of evidence was presented to Mead, but in complete horror she disregarded it and ruled against the kids/mom forcing them to visit. The systems gender bios. Good luck, Im going threw the same thing. Since I have many times contacted the, asking if they had a updated address they mailed me her current address. Here are some hints that I feel will really help. Meet half way to pick up and drop off ask for every other year to calm your child on taxes pay child support and co- parent best you can it is very difficult but it is best for both of you to be in the childs life ask for every other holiday ask for every other weekend and 2-6weeks in summer. I have to agree with Linda above. Be prepared. And if so should she be paying child support and should I hire a lawyer to try and get full or more custody? And believe it or not, there are Mothers, like me, who have ALWAYS tried to make things better for the children/father relationship. Not to write books online about what it cost, whether time or money to take care of your own kids. When your childs last tooth fell out, did you play tooth fairy and have the cash to do so? Joseph Cordell, Principal Partner, licensed in MO and IL only. Shes 1000 miles away. Do you call the Dad and let him know that youre going to the doctors and they need his dad does it to six and study show that children without Dads are five times more likely to become on successful and high-risk pregnancies. How many nights lately have you been woken up multiple times because of your childs nightmares? If I could accept this position I would no longer need to accept her generous gift every month. I am now a shell of a person and a victim to the worst crime a parent and child could ever go through PARENTAL ALIENATION. For school commuting, the parent who has care of the child at the time also has transport responsibility. But last year she took 4 months off being a mom. That would be considered kidnapping correct? Then she is given the power to come and snatch the children from us without any warning. I spent 11 years fighting the worthless legal system we have in this country, and guess whatI am giving up. Have your wife keep a copy with her as well. The BLESSING of seeing your child nearly every day and raising them. My sons father has visitation rights. My boyfriend and I planned a holiday with our children. I had to go thru 2 false accusations of domestic violence and proved to be innocent. Attorney services are provided by licensed attorneys in every state where Cordell & Cordell offices are located. All Good parents need to stick together, whether male or female. As much as it hurts and you feel like there is nothing you can do, Judges are not amused by this type of behavior. If you do not have a court agreement he can take your child and there is nothing you can do if I were u I would file a motion for custody in your county and find a good lawyer that way the ball is in your court. I dont care if the other parent is a Junkie or a murderer they still should make sure the other parent spends time with their child. I needed to get away from him he was verbally abussing me putting his hands on me putting me down all the time choking me while Im pregnant with twins I just couldnt take it anymore I needed my family I needed a support system I was afraid for me and my daughters life! She says, yes I am. My wifes baby daddy ignored her calls so she wasnt able to talk to her daughter what should I do? So do it right the or dont bring children into this world. If I had it to do all over again the courts and lawyers wouldnt have been involved and I wouldnt have gotten in trouble. Something has to be done to stop or prevent any parent from alienating the other for no good cause. If anyone has anything to help with please let me know. Dont understand why people cant just communicate and get over the temporary emotions because it makes a permanent effect in the childrens lifes. Go back to court and report hes been absent and ask that the order be adjusted accordingly. So I decided to go back to live with him again witch was a bad idea because it just made things worse , Another incident occurred between me and him causing him to push me down the stairs while Im 4 moths pregnant with twins told me to get out of his so I grab me and my daughter stuff and letf . Most of the time things get better when the dust settle and everybody falls into a post-divorce routine. I try to get confirmation on things and cant. Them not allowing you to see your son is against the law, call the police at least to bear witness. What if I were to give him that chance and he didnt return him? I went through legal aid for assistance but they are taking forever to send a court date. I have 3 other children, and Im unfit for my one daughter but not the rest.he was mentally, verbally abusive. But every time I confront him about any of it he denies all of it. Do not assume that you can make changes on your own unless the court order specifically says that you can. 0:57. He wont allow it. I am a police officer and a divorced dad. I have two kids an 8 year old and A5 year old on April 26th 2016 me their father and their paternal grandfather went into an agreement stating that their father and I would have certain visitation in their Eternal grandfather would have custodial custody what the grandfather is refusing me my visitation rights or even a phone call Im in the custody order it states that I am to have their school records their medical records Im to be notified when they need emergency care he is not complying with the arrangement it was filed in Virginia the judge in Virginia seen it and signed off on it neither of us live in Virginia their paternal grandfather has ever lived in Virginia their father no longer lives in Virginia and I no longer live in Virginia if the custody Arrangement papers was not filed in a North Carolina Court are they still legal. These two parking spaces are also ideal for parents needing a neutral area for child custody exchange between parents. My trust in human kind is gone. 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